How would you rate yourself as a woman? 10?.........a 9? or lower than that? When was the last time you shed some tears because it feels like you can't go on with your own life anymore? You want to give up because you've come to realized that you don't deserved to be on top and reach those goals?
Life isn't perfect! and yet not one of us is perfect, when you came out from your Mama's womb, you were just like an innocent caterpillar who knows nothing at all, you can't speak a word nor understand what people have spoken around you, you cry, you smile and giggle, without knowing what's happening around.
When you were a child, you didn't worry about anything that much, you let your parents decide what you will wear, even if it doesn't looks good at all. You're surrounded by many things, and one of them is your stuff toys. You play with your friends, smiles, laugh, fights and reconcile with them after a few minutes of quarrel
How Sweet to remember those priceless days, maybe you wished to go back to your childhood and stay as a child, where you wouldn't have to think about what's happening around you, what's clothes to wear, shoes and so on!
And then a drastic change happened, when you reached the teenage life. You've noticed that your body is changing and started to get ready on becoming a butterfly. You've start getting attracted with your opposite sex, and now you want to taste that first kiss! You've learned how to put some make-up on, chose the best dress (clothes) you think the best for you together with your dazzling heels or shoes! You've start dating, start getting jealous, you have this in mind of choosing the people whom you'll call as true friends. You start getting insecure and became emotional, you cry, you laugh and questioned yourself most of the time. You've been dreaming of that "ONCE IN A LIFETIME EVENTS" seeing yourself wearing those white gown, while walking in the aisle waiting for your groom, You're not really thinking about divorce, all you have tn mind is to be with your ROMEO and live happy every after.
Young Adult Life- women in this stage views life a bit different from teen-age life, we focused more on figuring out on how we can get a job that is suited to us, though in today's world the reality shows how important educational background is or how important college degree is. If you have degree you'll get a good job with a nice salary. So same as men of today's world, women get a job depends on their educational background. Though now all of us are lucky of reaching our goal, some may not have what it takes to pursue a career. Some of us doesn't have an educational background, or haven't finish their high school studies, it's either due to financial problem, family problem, drug addiction. or poverty. Most of us in this stage dreams to find love as well,, we understand more about life, Though not all of us are yet matured. The maturity of a woman in this stage may depend on how she grew up, where she grew up, her experiences in life during her teen age life, and how it affects to her. Some may have even late maturity in this stage, some didn't realized what other have realized yet, some may have not find what other's have found, some may have not learned what other women have learned from their journey. Though we are more confident with ourselves compare to what we've become during our teen-age life. We become more responsible in everything we do, and even become realistic in every way. We talk about people, we talk about our past, we gossip and we talk about men. Some women in this stage get married, but some may have not found love at all, each woman in this stage have different stories. Some may have achieved something while some are not, some may have reached their goals in life but some maybe suffered into failure.
Women in their 30's- This is the stage of life where we get closer and closer to what we call the over-pass of today's calendar. Yet the stage where we see life as it seems, and maybe for the one who are still single in this cycle of life, we want to get married right away and build our own family. I am not saying that women in their 30's are desperately looking for someone to settle down right away! But yes we usually think of settling down with someone as soon as possible before the door closed. Some may have found their luck and have their children around them and are happy while some are still searching and dreaming for that one true love to hit-in. So why is it, that some other woman in this stage, stays single? or they do really want to stay single at this age until they reached 40's? "HELL NO"!! There are few valid reasons or even more why these women are still single during their 30's. One reason could be due tot their career, they might be very busy of reaching their goals and they never noticed that they're getting older. But the question is that, Does women really have to settle down? Well as for my own opinion and views in life, I would like to settle down of course and build my own family, with the right person and in the right time. It is possible that some other women in this stage as well, might realized that they're not really ready yet to settle down or to have children, for some reason, it could be their career they were trying to pursue, or due tot heir life situation (who knows right?).
Women in their 40's- Again women in this stage of life have their own different stories, and this how i view myself in the future during my 40's, I'd like to see myself achievements in life, not for myself alone but for my family as well, my kids and my husband and tell myself "Oh i'm getting older now" i am sure there are few women who are still single in this stage of life, not because they wanted to stay single, but\maybe because of some valid reason. let's just say they're helping their married sister or married brother taking good care of their child? see? that could be one reason as well, or lets just say they've been hurt for how many times, or they have meet someone during at their teen-age life whom they love the most, and they're still longing for that person and they can't seemed to forget that person until they reached the age of 40's. And now you might say "What??!! is that really happening?" The answer is yes it is!! that's happening in today's world. Some other women in this stage might be so lucky to have an abundant life, but for some they're still in burden, especially those women that comes from a poor family. Some of us are still surviving in this stage doing the best that we can for our children to give them a bright future. it could be possible that some are desperately longing to settle down with a younger guy to fill the void in their hearts that has been tortured by heartaches.
Women in their 50's- Whenever i reached this stage of life in the future, i would still view life as beautiful as it seems. But I'm not gonna say that I'm old enough to continue what i used to do, my children might grown up during this stage, and it is possible that they have their own families as well. I'd still keep myself fit for sure and be active in physical fitness. I am sure you'll agree that their is no age limit for those who want to be physically fit! For some women who became successful in life, they would look their accomplishment in life, their achievements and goals they've reached during the past few years of living in this world. They can be as happy as of what an amazing woman they've become. This might be the time where they would be even thankful of all the blessings they have received from God. Again not all of us are us lucky as the other woman could (during this stage of life). Some might still living in a wooden house, while some others are not having regular meals (if you know that i mean)
Women in their 60's- The stage of retirement, some of us might still working during this age, so it's really depends in every women's situation. When we were younger we wanted to marry the one we love and grow old with them. We see ourselves holding hands and still sweet with our lifetime partner even at this age. But things don't just happen as well want. Some other men even divorced their wives at this women's stages of life. They might have some valid reason or it's just that they're looking for another young woman to make them feel fresh and loved again.
Being a woman is not easy, there are times that even if we have given our best to pleased our partners, still everything isn't enough. They keep on finding fault in everything you do, though we do not view our duty in this world as burden. but we find it hard to understand, when a man won't tell us about why they have to let us go, Even if we have done everything for them.
May all of you guys find happy ending story and keep your dreams going!
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